What to Expect in Your First Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) Therapy Session at CV Lighthouse

Stephanie Rosales • February 24, 2026

Starting applied behavior analysis therapy is an important step for your child and your family. If you’re feeling hopeful, nervous, or simply unsure of what to expect, you’re not alone. Many parents have questions before their first ABA therapy session — and that’s completely normal.


At CV Lighthouse, the goal of your first session is simple: to build trust, gather information, and begin creating a personalized plan that supports your child’s growth. Here’s a detailed look at what that process typically involves.



What Is Applied Behavior Analysis Therapy?


Applied behavior analysis therapy (ABA therapy) is a research-based approach designed to help individuals develop meaningful skills and reduce behaviors that interfere with daily life. ABA therapy is widely recognized as an effective treatment for individuals with autism spectrum disorder (ASD).


Through structured strategies and positive reinforcement, applied behavior analysis therapy can support development in areas such as:

  • Communication and language
  • Social interaction
  • Daily living skills
  • Emotional regulation
  • Academic readiness
  • Adaptive behavior


At CV Lighthouse, ABA therapy programs are individualized, meaning every child’s treatment plan is built around their unique strengths, challenges, and goals.



Before Your First ABA Therapy Session


Your first in-person therapy session usually follows an intake and assessment process. This ensures the therapy plan is tailored to your child’s needs from the very beginning.



Initial Consultation


The process often begins with a consultation where you’ll discuss:

  • Your child’s developmental history
  • Current concerns
  • Previous diagnoses or evaluations
  • Family goals and priorities
  • Insurance and authorization details


This is also your opportunity to ask questions about applied behavior analysis therapy and learn how CV Lighthouse structures its programs.



Comprehensive Assessment


Before formal treatment begins, a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) conducts an assessment. This may include:

  • Observing your child in structured and natural settings
  • Identifying strengths and skill gaps
  • Evaluating communication abilities
  • Reviewing behavior patterns
  • Gathering caregiver input


The assessment helps determine which goals should be prioritized and how therapy sessions will be structured.



What Happens During Your First ABA Therapy Session?


The first session is focused primarily on relationship building and gentle engagement. Rather than jumping into intensive instruction, therapists work to create a positive and supportive environment.


Here’s what you can typically expect.



1. Meeting the Therapy Team


Your child will meet members of the clinical team, which may include:

  • A Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) who oversees treatment planning
  • A Registered Behavior Technician (RBT) who provides direct one-on-one therapy


Therapists take time to introduce themselves in a calm, welcoming way. Establishing comfort and trust is essential in applied behavior analysis therapy, especially during the first visit.



2. Building Rapport


The early part of ABA therapy often focuses on rapport building. This means:

  • Learning your child’s interests
  • Engaging in preferred activities
  • Creating positive associations with the therapy environment
  • Reinforcing cooperation in small, manageable ways


This foundation is critical. When a child feels safe and understood, skill development becomes much more effective.



3. Observation and Baseline Data Collection


During the first ABA therapy session, therapists may collect baseline data. This simply means observing how your child performs certain skills before formal instruction begins.


For example, they might assess:

  • How your child requests items
  • Ability to follow simple directions
  • Social engagement
  • Response to structured tasks


This information allows the team to measure progress accurately over time.



4. Beginning Simple Skill Targets


Depending on the child’s comfort level, therapists may begin introducing basic skill-building activities. These are often short, engaging, and highly reinforced to maintain motivation.


Examples might include:

  • Practicing simple communication requests
  • Matching or sorting tasks
  • Turn-taking games
  • Following one-step directions


The pace is individualized. Some children move quickly into structured work, while others need additional sessions focused on comfort and rapport.



The Role of Parents and Caregivers


Family involvement is a central part of applied behavior analysis therapy. During your first session, you may:

  • Observe parts of the session
  • Share insights about what works at home
  • Discuss specific goals you’d like prioritized
  • Learn how reinforcement strategies are used


Parent collaboration helps ensure that skills learned in therapy transfer to everyday life. CV Lighthouse emphasizes communication and partnership so families feel informed and supported throughout the process.



How Goals Are Developed After the First Session


Following assessment and initial sessions, the BCBA develops a formal treatment plan. This plan outlines:

  • Target skills
  • Behavior reduction strategies (if needed)
  • Measurable objectives
  • Recommended therapy hours
  • Progress monitoring methods


Common goals in applied behavior analysis therapy may focus on:

  • Increasing functional communication
  • Reducing unsafe behaviors
  • Building social interaction skills
  • Teaching independence in daily routines


Your input remains central to this process. Goals are designed not only to address clinical needs but also to support your family’s daily life.



Frequently Asked Questions About the First ABA Therapy Session


How long is the first session?


The length varies depending on your child’s treatment plan, but initial sessions are often structured to prioritize comfort and engagement rather than intensity.



Should I stay during the session?


In many cases, parents are encouraged to observe or participate, especially early in the process. The clinical team will guide you on what’s most appropriate for your child.



What should I bring?


Helpful items may include:

  • Preferred toys or comfort objects
  • Snacks (if appropriate)
  • Any relevant medical or evaluation documents
  • A list of questions or concerns



Will my child be overwhelmed?


The first ABA therapy session is intentionally designed to reduce stress. Therapists move at your child’s pace and adjust strategies based on their responses.



How to Prepare for Your First ABA Therapy Visit


To make the transition smoother:

  • Talk positively about therapy beforehand.
  • Maintain normal routines when possible.
  • Share detailed information about your child’s preferences and triggers.
  • Arrive a few minutes early to allow for a relaxed start.

Remember, applied behavior analysis therapy is a process. Progress happens over time, and the first session is just the beginning.



A Supportive Start at CV Lighthouse


Beginning applied behavior analysis therapy can feel like a big step — but you don’t have to navigate it alone. The first session at CV Lighthouse focuses on understanding your child, building trust, and setting the stage for meaningful growth.


With individualized planning, compassionate clinicians, and a structured, evidence-based approach, ABA therapy can provide the tools your child needs to thrive at home, in school, and in the community.


If you’re ready to learn more about applied behavior analysis therapy at CV Lighthouse, reach out today to schedule a consultation and take the next step toward supportive, personalized care.


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